15 August 2009

I know this post might cause a controversy but I just want to say out my thoughts.

Ever wonder why many people are divorcing?
1. Both do not love each other anymore
2. Either party have an affair
3. Purely sick of each other
4. No more commitment
Ever wonder why many people do not intend to marry?
1. They don’t trust each other
2. They are either gay or les
3. Commitment to them is a BIG thing
Ever wonder why many people do not have a happy ending?
1. Marriage isn’t a simple ting
2. Family Problems
3. Family Affairs

I personally gave thoughts about my future and concluded that I won’t get married. Reasons are because I don’t really trust guys and don’t think that they are able to commit to such a big and long term relationship. And there, I concluded my statement.
Well, I decided to post this because I have been set thinking, thinking about my future, career, life, friends and commitments.

Have you ever thought about what you expect from your own future? Well, actually I do but to my dearest mother she thinks that they are not realistic, how sad can that be? I actually plan to study event management in Singapore Polytechnic even though I really want to get in Ngee Ann Polytechnic, however my mom thinks that being in event management is not in such high demands in Singapore, to think about it, it is actually quite true. I want to be working as an event planner for weddings. Ironic, yes I know. I don’t want to get married yet I want to see people get married. Maybe seeing many couples marrying, I might decide to get married? HAHAHA.

Have you wondered how life would be like after you got married? A ‘oh-so-wonderful life’ or a ‘oh-my-god life’? I just want my own life, being single and all. I imagined mine already. Being single, working in a stable career, having a fun career, living in a 4-room with a nice interior design with a pet dog. HAHAHA. Very fabulous, isn’t it?

To tell you the truth, I don’t really now why I want to speak/post this blog post. Maybe I just want to share? How ridiculous can I get? Pardon me then.

Sometimes, I really do think about what I want to do about my future but why is it that I give people the impression that I don’t think about my future and is one who choose to live my life step by step? I don’t understand it at all, even my mother thinks that I decide my future a step by a step. People, I plan for my future but marriage can’t be a thing that is in my life.

This is such a random post. HAHA.
*I really want to thanks qiyao,shimin and zhengyu. Thank you to the three of you very much(((:


XOXO;
K.

you been there,
you were there,
now, all i need you here.

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